I agree with both! You have every right to feel the way you do. You might see others as being "worse" then you, but in the long run it doesn't matter because you feel the way you do regardless of how everyone else feels. It's happening to YOU and it still hurts. Don't underestimate your own feelings. You know, there will always be at least one person worse off in your eyes. But that person may look at you and think what they are going through is easy compared to what your dealing with. Vent all you want.......I will listen. I'm very sorry your losing your hair. That would be very hard to deal with. Have you thought about a wig? I know it's not the same as your own, but it might make you feel more confident in public? Take care, Amber