Sophia3 Posted November 12, 2006 Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 Haven't seen an update here recently.Got a brief note from Jan. Jeff is in Hospice at the hospital. ONLY immediate family at this time.She will let people know when arrangements have been made.Prayers to Jeff and support to Jan as she continues forward in what will be her most difficult time.Sophia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MightyMouse Posted November 12, 2006 Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 Oh my... I know hospice is only offered for end of life care, so time must be very short. This must be so hard for all of them right now. My thoughts are with them all. Nina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DSM3KIDZ Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 That makes my heart ache. I hope she's doing okayDayna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dizzygirl Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 oh boy.. im so very sorry.. jan please know that you both are still in my prayers.. take carehugslinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DancingLight Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Oh my, I have chills and goosebumps from this news.We all and Jan and Jeff knew this time would come, but it is soooo incredibly heartbreaking...the whole thing has been.Thank you for posting, Sophia, as I have been wondering where things were at. I knew from her last post that he was nearing end of life...At this point, in Hospice, I hope that they are able to keep him comfortable and out of pain, and that Jan is able to be with him as much as her energy allows...She has been in my thougths every day....Emily Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
morgan617 Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Jeff and Jan, you have fought so hard now rest is near. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. There are no words that comfort you except may "trust in the Lord with all your heart" You have climbed to top of the mountain, Jeff where your strength will come from......all my love, morgan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cardiactec Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Jeff and Jan, may God's love surround you both, walk with you, and keep you. this life is short, for all of us. whether we live to 90 or 25 years or 90 or 25 days. this life is truly just a doorway to the next. Eternity may be calling for jeff, but embrace God where this road ends - because He is waiting for you on a road that never ends - if you believe - into peace, love, and joy -- a road without pain or cancer - a road to glory. He loves you both so much. and so do all of us on this forum. be comforted and uplifted today. you are both loved,my prayers and thoughts are with you both,angela. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nadine Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 what does one say ----------- we care, we are here and thinking of you and your family! Take in every moment--- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ernie Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Hi,I am thinking of both of you Jan. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
corina Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 jan and jeff, the both of you are in my thoughts and i am sending you both everything that can possibly help you to make this bearable (sp??). i don't know what else to say, just sending you all my love,corina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacquie802 Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Jan,I know words can't take the pain away, but please know that both you and Jeff are in our thoughts and prayers...Jacquie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sunfish Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 thank you for the update sophia.my heart & thoughts & prayers go out to jan & jeff & their close family & friends. i only wish there was more to say or do.much love,melissap.s. just for technical clarity sake (and because i used to think it was a much "shorter" service myself) hospice services are provided when life expectency is anywhere up to 6 months or a year, depending on the locality. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldicedance Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 You and Jeff will be in my prayers. You both have fought such a valiant and courageous battle. Know that I will keep you both in my thoughts as you make this most difficult journey. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nikigrl8883 Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 i havent been here long enough to come to really know jan or jeff but i can imagine how hard this must be for you jan....i dont know what your religion is but i truely belive in God from some amazing experices ive had in my life ive come to know he exists ..i will pray for you and jeff there is life after death,,may god be with you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MomtoGiuliana Posted November 13, 2006 Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 My thoughts are with you both.Katherine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taylortotmom Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 Peace and love to Jeff and Jan. May you find comfort during this time.Carmen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sophia3 Posted November 14, 2006 Author Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 Got an email...Jeff passed away this morning.This link will SOON be active and folks can post condolences. Least that is the message I got in a group email.http://www.vermeulenfuneralhome.com/a/index.htm Love, thoughts, prayers and strength Jan. You rallied for Jeff during his battle. We shall do our best to be HERE for yours.Sophia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lukkychrm42 Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 Thank you for posting this, Sophia.I just want to say that I'm incredibly sorry, Jan. We love you here, and I'm sending lots of love your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom4cem Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 Jan, words can't express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. You both have been very inspirational, just reading of your support for one another was very uplifting.Thoughts and prayers.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MightyMouse Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 Jan, Teri and I are with you... and Jeff is with you too. May whatever brings you peace and healing be given to you now.Love, Nina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PattiL Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 Jan,MY deepest sympathy is with you and your family. You will be in my prayers.Patti Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wareagle Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Jan... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gwen Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 I am so sorry for you and your family and friends. my thoughts are with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 Jan, sending you love and comfort. xo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
corina Posted November 14, 2006 Report Share Posted November 14, 2006 jan,i am so very sorry for your loss. i?m sending you lots of love and warmth, and strength for the time to come.corina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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