I used to believe in this. Mentally - sort of. We may be attracted to certain people because of the way we are and by looking for a specific type of person. But that isn't some supernatural thing. That can be explained away logically. Rergardless, in the grand scheme of things, we control practically nothing. We are passengers in this existence, not drivers. However, to suggest that we brought on POTS by willing it upon ourselves is offensive AND retarded.