I'm sure there have been topics posted about this before, but in all honesty searching just sounds exhausting to me right now. My boyfriend and I were talking today about me, and basically about the future. He's worried about life plans not working out because of me being sick. So here's the problem, in a not so short summary... He's very supportive of me and my disorder and understands that it can cause problems with everyday tasks. He's really understanding when it's obvious, aka visible, that I feel like crap. While he knows that symptoms don't always show themselves, he finds it harder to accept that sometimes I honestly can't get out of bed even when I look fine. He was raised in a "suck it up" kind of way; loving but tough love, too. I don't know if this has anything to do with it, but he feels that sometimes I may be exaggerating or using feeling a little crappy as an excuse to stay in bed. He tries to convince himself this isn't the case but he's a very logically based kind of guy, and if he can't see it he has a hard time accepting it. So my question is, does anyone have any tips on things he could read or ways I could explain to him why sometimes even when I look fine I'm definitely not? Meg