Hi, I used to be very ambitious and wanted to complete my PhD in Psychology. I had to quit because of my health. I had to stop working for the same reason. It took me years to accept that I could no longer work as I identified myself with my job. After having almost died several times over the last few years, I am happy to be still alive an be able to go out an do some things by myself. It's funny how you see life in a different perspective and your values change when you get so close to death. I don't want the big things anymore. I want simple things, my family, my friends and to appreciate the moment I am living.