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  1. I am wondering what the ages of your children are. You should seek advise from - a lawyer - or county and state organizations.

    I did do what you seem to be considering. I did wonder if I would survive all the work. In May of 2009 I decided to put my home up for sale. The number of hours I put in prepping it are nuts. 20 hours in the garage- alone. That BTW was the only

    area I timed. I put it up for sale in Oct and it sold in 5 days. thank God, because my daughter and husband were not happy about any of this, but esp the intrusions during showing the home. Trying to have it "ready to show" would have been impossible over a longer time period.

    Because I was working 7 days a week and taking my daughter to her alternative school- requiring an hour of driving 5 days a week it was obvious that I had to do it. We now can walk to her school and I can get by working 4 days! WOOHOO

    we moved here Nov 5 2009, I was hanging on. In march 2010 my daughters dr. (a psychiatrist) asked me to cut hours- work 9-3

    on weekdays if it was possible. I was able to fill that bill. Losing my friends- coworkers- put me over the top and I was barely able to function. I would say anxiety was the issue. So I got, and still ,get counseling. No question about it- I'm glad I did it. The situation was bad and now the situation is great. I did get separated - I did do all the work. It was HARD and I didn't know if I'd go crazy and off the deep end. My parents are not living and siblings either could not or would not help. I had no friends , I worked 7 days a week. Clearly a good choice- looking back.

    and now the big difference -I do not get tachy - it could be physically impossible for you. I have OH, NCS and

    chronic long term Hepatitis C. Since you are on no meds I suggest you see if they would improve your abilities.

  2. well I have OH and NCS not POTS. An SNRI has been extremely helpful. I felt great , I did know my heart

    was beating faster. For me this was great- it prevented the OH. However would you believe I ended up

    with tachycardia. my dose became an AM only and reduced to half on the lowest dose snri available.

    I take one dose of 75mg bupropion. This is half of the lowest therapeutic dose of an SNRI. From

    my point of view - or experience - it causes tachycardia.

  3. There's a big difference between wanting and craving a cigarette. Its difficult to sort

    out. However the quick and easy answer is, I stopped wanting a cigarette the day I quit.

    It is why I was successful. Not to evade your question but you need to dig your heels in

    and make the craving irrelevant.

    The price of withdrawal is much less then the price of emphysema . Which one are you

    going to pay? You are going to pay one.

    Now with that said, in 3 days my complexion improved, in a week the visible broken capillary

    on my nose (which I put makeup on everyday) faded. In about 9 days -post patch- I started to have

    moments normalcy. Also in 9 days my BP dropped some. For 3 months I required "something". I had an

    ice cream cone every day for 3 months. HA it was my "something to look forward to enjoying" which

    smoking had been.

    So I will add that the first nine days -post patch- I had no brains - unable to focus on anything.

    After 3 months I was relatively normal. The craving tapers off. Its gradual. At 3 months I still

    wanted one. I think about a minute a day. The craving can feel strong but disappear after a

    couple seconds. During the moment of the craving you think only a cigarette will stop it.

    Not true, it will pass shortly.

    An on-line support group is a good idea for you. You can get all your questions answered and

    more reliable answers too.

    Lastly tho. I guarantee that if you go back to smoking you will have to repeat what you have

    -so far- behind you. Do you want to go though that again? Do not risk that!

    you go!~

  4. although I don't appreciate the home page picture. Its a near death young man in the hosp with his 4 year

    old son present. the site

    www.whyquit.com

    has lots of good info- links, forums.

    It was indeed a big help for me. The "Junkie" thoughts page was key.

    My downfall was the thought "I deserve a cigarette". When I changed that to,

    "I deserve the best, possible, health" I finally quit. Been 7 years.

    When I say I probably tried to quit 200 times, I'm not kidding. The year I quit I decided I would

    not stop trying until I succeeded. People would ask me, "So, are you a smoker or a nonsmoker today."

    My 10th atemptt that year was June 11th. It was my first attempt after identifying the hook

    that got me ,smoking again,on all the previous attempts.

    I did use the patch.

    wishing you sucess.......

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