I have struggled so much with this over the years.
I have never tried going to the ER for POTS symptoms, maybe because I was already diagnosed as a teen so I kind of already know what is going on.
Usually when I bring up my PoTS I have my parents and husband being “supportive” but you can tell that on some level, they’re not really sure how bad it actually is. Like maybe I’m making a bigger deal out of it than it needs to be. My husband, who I’ve been married to for over 10 years, actually had the gall to ask me a few weeks ago: this POTS thing, are you like, sure you have it? Do you think you have it because you read about it or do you know you actually have it?
I had to remind him that an actual doctor did actual tests on me and gave me actual beta blockers (which he knows, but it seems he conveniently forgot).
What is driving me nuts right now though is that I am pregnant with my second child and I’m in the first trimester and my symptoms are rendering me completely unable to function. And this is where the “support” really starts to slip. People are inconvenienced because no one wants to help me take care of my toddler, they’re busy with their own stuff, and therefore it becomes inconvenient to believe I’m genuinely in bad shape. I tried explaining to my family that I’m having a terrible time with this pregnancy and one aunt said “no, this is nothing”, as if I just need to toughen it out, and the other told me that when she gets depressed, she also has a hard time getting out of bed (insinuating that it’s all in my head). The only reason I had to mention it to my aunts at all (which I would generally rather avoid since they’re quite judgmental), is because I need my mom’s help since my husband is always at work, and they keep badgering her about coddling me or enabling me when I should be able to take care of my life by myself like any other adult.
I wish I could just stop caring what they think. What is so aggravating is that I physically need help so I’m literally dependent on people believing me. I hate this.