Hello Everyone,
I'm a wife of a 40-yearold POTS man from Finland. We had to figure out the diagnose ourselves, even the professor of cardiology in our city had never heard of POTS! Every time we see a doctor, they suspect anxiety. I feel lucky that I found this website, I really need to hear what you think of my husband's story, and what we should know about this syndrome! I apologize that I can’t make this post shorter… I hope that at least someone out there is feeling well enough to read this.
My husband's story: it all started with a mysterious infection two years ago, a single swollen lymph node down on the side of his neck was painful and throbbing, but he had no fever or other symptoms. 10 days later he woke up with POTS, the illness hit him in one day with full force, and he's been symptomatic ever since, 24/7.
On that awful day, he came home disorientated, saying that he felt like he was drunk or hungover (naturally without drinking at all), and as if he had been hit in the head. He's been like that for two years, without good and bad days, his days are always bad. We had to learn the hard way that standing or prolonged sitting makes him ill, before we knew about POTS, he overexerted himself every day. He feels better when he's lying down, but not well.
My husband's symptoms:
Average 30 bps rise in HR when supine -> standing
Constant brain fog
Severe fatigue
Orthostatic and exercise intolerance*
Cognitive fatigue, he can't concentrate for long, social events and talking on a phone wears him down fast, he can watch TV for about 90 minutes before he has to rest.
Heavy limbs and arms that ache when he's resting, but not when he's standing or moving.
He can repeatedly yawn for 15 minutes, feels better after such a yawning episode.
Benign heart arrhythmias (extra beats or missed beats).
Sensitivity to light and noise, he has to use ear protection around our child. ☹
Symptoms he doesn't have: syncope, orthostatic hypotension, post exertional malaise, gastrointestinal problems, insomnia, infections.
* Simply put, he can't stand for more than 3 minutes without feeling ill, if he stays up, he will enter a presyncope state of pure agony. It's not physical pain, he says, but the feeling of discomfort is so extreme that he simply can't endure it for long, without at least sitting down.
He was an athlete the day before he got sick, now all exercise is torment for him. He uses plastic plates and cups when eating, because they are lighter to lift. I help him to do everything. He feels physically weak and weighed down most of the time. He CAN force himself to do things, we go shopping or driving, take short walks, watch an online movie, but after we're done, he must lie down and cover his eyes and ears for at least 20 minutes, sometimes 2 hours is needed for moderate recovery.
Tests and such:
Extensive blood work, only antibodies for receptors and epinephrine and norepinephrine are untested. Everything in his blood looks healthy, except for low testosterone. Not a trace of anemia or thyroid problems. He has had an MRI of the brain, echocardiography and thorax x-ray, all normal.
Finally, here are my questions:
1. Based on this information, is it possible to tell if he has ME/CFS as well?
2. How can we find out his POTS subtype?
It’s quite certain that his POTS is postviral, without deconditioning, but is it possible that he's hyperPOTS? I suspect this because he has "hot flashes", he sweats, gets angry and agitated when he tries to stay up. He had elevated blood pressure before he got ill, and he still has it: his average BP is 145/95. He had a bad temper before he got ill, now he's worse, completely stress-intolerant and every time we go to a doctor, his BP and HR skyrocket and the doctors think he's got anxiety issues...
His feet and hands turn purplish red with bulging veins, but not blue. I’m almost sure that he doesn’t have peripheral neuropathy despite of his leg and arm muscle aches, those aches seem to be related to "vascular things" happening when blood begins to flow in horizontal position.
3. What medication he could use if he’s not hyperPOTS, but is hypertensive?
Beta blockers made his fatigue worse, so he refuses to take them even for his hypertension. We have tried bisoprolol, metoprolol and propral.
4. If exercize hasn't helped him in two years, has he done it wrong, or should he keep trying?
He has been walking, gone to the gym, cycling... for two years.
5. And lastly, has any of you had a personality disorder before POTS, and how do you feel this problem interacts with POTS?
My husband is oversensitive, I think it makes his POTS worse, his heart is “adrenaline sensitive” and he's more symptomatic when stressed.
Thank you so much for reading this. Getting a chance to “talk” to someone AT LAST who might know what I’m talking about, is such a therapeutic relief for a worried wife.