I have been married for 9 years to the most amazing man alive. When we got married I was a nurse, working full-time and he had crashed a plane 9 years ago - so he had medical issues (and needed insurance) of his own. 2 years into the marriage, I got sick. Never has a man and his WHOLE family, rallied around anyone like he did. But there are some days when he simply says, "I'm sorry, I just can't deal with you today". And I understand. We have friends who can step in for the odd day now and then. There ARE people out there who understand, and who will (willingly) deal with us. Just keep looking!