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Thank You, I finally talk to my step-daughter and told her to talk to me when ever she needs me. Especially with her pots. She calls it pots too. Anyhow she tells me things too. Any how I ordered her some pots bracelets and pamphlets for her family and us. Anyhow I think I got the ball rolling

Sad but, true there will never be any type of reconciliation for truce. This woman and Grandma (short story) was mad I yelled at my stepdaughter...etc. And I was set up. I went to step daughters house and the request of Mother that I use to do everything with... lol. Anyhow they locked me up and beat me called the cops on me. I spent the last two years in court rooms. 13 thousand dollars of my father's estate he left in lawyer fee's loss of a relationship with my step-daughter (me and Dad) Finally now after 2 years we are finally seeing her again... Because the daughter put her foot down finally. Thats what I believe anyhow she wants to live with us ... etc. But we live in Utah the state where no child lives with the father ha ha jk Anyhow not to go on but, as you can see we are in a perdicerment. ....

We don't know how she is. I haven't really noticed much other than sometime she gets an attitude but, I think that goes along with her personallity and being a teenager now. And what do you mean how I treat her. As in less stress spoil her more than I already do ? lol.. jk.... I am always in trouble for spoiling her. She sure can walk the mall when she wants. Is there a difference in always walking -vs- just standing? Thanks for listening

I read your message. And I would like to no the symptoms in which you feel. Etc. I have a step daughter that has POTS and I am lost in the dark...

Please some one I am just the evil step mom of a 13 year old girl. That has been diagnosed with POTS. We are in the dark as in my husband and I are in the dark about it all. The mother takes her to the appointments of course the father isn't invited. But I have been trying to read up on it. And can't find what you can and and can't do with a child with POTS. Recently we went to church and heard a story of our pasture and his boys playing with air soft guns. (using protective gear as well) Anyhow long story short. My step daughter of course wanted to play as well. I noticed she would sit alot I would ask her if she was okay and she would say ya and get up and go play. Well we let her take the gun home because her cousins have them. Well her Mom called and was upset with my husband and told her she was going to trash that air soft gun. And if Ashley gets any more welts from them she is going to make sure all the guns are thrown away (like how she gonna do that? control freak) Anyhow she told my husband that its not good for daughter has that POTS and can cause problems. Anyhow so I can see how this goes. Everytime we do anything she is going to start on the POTS thing. Just like the Asthma and how I use to burn candles and incents I use to get in trouble but, come to find out my step daughter has candles in her room... So I don't know where to start? We can't make Dr. Appointments because this woman changes her mind as much as I change my underwear. When she can come over...etc. Yes we are getting the visitation stuff set up but it takes time...etc. I just want to know if there is a link to do's and dont's for a child with POTS? Please help lost in the dark Step Mommy