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  1. I had a husband who needed a "happy and healthy" wife. Operative word being HAD. I got sick 5 weeks after we got married, and our divorce was final 15 months after that. He abandoned me in every sense of the word, told me frequently that the weight I had mysteriously gained (turned out I had celiac disease, it came off, fast, two years later, and then some before I finally got correctly diagnosed, went gluten free, & am finally relatively stable) even though I was only a size 6. He would completely abandon me every time I had to be hospitalized, telling me that all his friends "at the bar" knew how sad he was that I was sick. My healthy-ish years ended sooner than I think they had to, because I destroyed myself trying to please someone who couldn't be pleased. And eventually, he gave up and walked away for good. Fortunately, by then I had a job with excellent benefits, so even though I was dirt poor, literally sleeping on an air mattress for the first 4 months I lived there until I could afford a bed, I was at least getting the medical care I needed. There is no doubt that stress contributed to my illness. Dr. Grubb has told me, many times, that managing my stress is the single most important thing I can do to manage my illness. And as I collect more and more diagnoses, that only becomes more important. I know that not everyone has the ability, or the lack of any choice in the matter, to leave. But I slept better by myself on the floor off that tiny, cheap apartment than I had in months. I turned to my friends and my church for support, mainly emotional because I have too much pride for my own good, but financial at times. I made th investment in my own future, and my own happiness, and spent two years in some pretty intensive therapy. And I learned why I kept making the same mistakes over and over again, and why I sabotaged relationships with decent guys. With a lot of help and support, I finally agreed to go out with a really, really nice guy. Who already knew I was ill, and wasn't scared off. And even in some of my worst moments, including breaking up with him when I found out about my EDS, and that I would only continue to degenerate. (In fairness, I really did feel that such a good guy deserved a girl who wasn't going to be so physically handicapped, in addition to all my emotional baggage.) In a little over 4 months, we are getting married. We have had tough moments, to be sure. And the days I do feel well enough to take extra effort with my appearance, he definitely appreciates it. But any man who can only be kind to you when you are all dolled up, even at the expense of your health and well being, does not really love you for you. The fact that my guy wants to cuddle with me, kiss me (among other things!) spend time with me even when I am too sick to get out of bed means more to me than I can even describe. Leaving and starting over, especilly in the middle of illness, feels impossible. And your individual circumstance may be one where it is impossible. But all the time I stayed with my ex in "comfort" cost me, and cost me far more than worrying about how I was going to pay my rent on a bad month. Not having to endlessly push myself beyond my endurance, (which was a constant with my ex) has made me feel much better emotionally, even if I don't always feel better physically. So if there is any way you can feel even slightly better, including not getting dolled up, and your partner doesn't support you, then they don't care as much as they should.
  2. At the time I was dx'ed, I was also a retail department manager. working 50-60 hour weeks. On August 12 2007, (doubly memorable, because it's my birthday.) I woke with the worst migraine I have ever had. It lasted for 9 months straight. In the beginning, I rarely had syncopal episodes. I just could not shake the migraine, and eventually I started getting dizzy spells. I still wasn't passing out, but it was interfering with my work, tremendously. As I passionately loved my job, I just could not tolerate being so bad at it, even though my employer was bending over backwards to try to accomodate my illness. In 2008 I finally caved and got a desk job. And by 2010, I could no longer work at all. But prior to my illness every job I had ever had was on my feet.
  3. I tried adderall, fairly early on in my journey, so at least 2 or 3 years ago. For me, there was not enough overall benefit to outweigh side effects and risks. The XR would keep me awake for exactly 12 hours, almost to the minute! But I didn't really see any cognitive improvement. I was awake, but not any better at comprehension, still "blanking out" on words, (which we STILL haven't dx'ed the cause or come up with effective treatment, sigh!) and getting lost, geographically as well as conversationally. That was the only drug in that class we tried, just didn't like the way it made me feel. But I'm glad for others it helps! Sandy
  4. FWIW, as I mentioned in another thread, my first ever syncopal episode was when I was 17 in an aerobics class. With all of the postural changes in an aerobics class, I have never gotten more than 5 minutes into one without having a full sycope and a trip to the ER in the back of an ambulance. Almost 20 years later, and that is not only unchanged, but I have come to understand my POTS is caused by my EDS, which prevents me from doing ANY land-based exercise. The risk of dislocation, tears in ligaments and cartilage is just too great. I am, right this very moment, recovering from arthroscopic hip surgery. Cartilage holding my thigh bone in the hip socket tore, and proceding to shred the surrounding attached muscle. The Levine protocol would cripple me even quicker. Aquatic PT, where much of my bodyweight is supported is safer, but by no means perfect. FYI, I am 5'8, and currently weigh around 125, due to complications with my celiac disease. Prior to my onset of serious, progressive illness about 4 years ago, every job I had ever worked was highly physical, and I have always been in very good shape. My illness forces my increasing level of inactivity. To someone like me, who has aggressively pursued every possible treatment, only to run into what is essentially a genetic dead end, Dr. Levine's protocol comes across as downright offensive! Even in my case, with caution taken, exercise is beneficial. But it will never do more than slow the progress my disease is making. POTS has soooo many, widely unrelated, causes that we're aware of, it is potentially dangerous to EDS folks like me, to imply that everyone can benefit from a high impact aerobic exercise regimen. To the people who have had success and improvement, congratulations! And I mean that sincerely. But I really don't like the sweeping generalizations and disparaging "nicknames". When all of us are battling against something that is so little understood, and has dramatically changed our lives, to imply anyone's illness is a result of inferior efforts to me is ill-informed, and downright rude. Sandy
  5. FWIW I have orthostatic hypOtension, and aerobics led to my eventual POTS dx. I can't go more than 5 minutes into an aerobic workout before all the positional changes do me in, and I syncope every time. My high school (this was early 90's, so no one knew much of anything about wny this was happening, and my PCP at the time eventually just gave me a note excusing me from gym until we were done with aerobics) did aerobics for a whole quarter, and by the time we were 5 minutes into the routine the ambulance was on its way to collect me! I also found, much, MUCH later (as in 8 months ago!) that I have EDS, and I am sure that plays a large role in my exercise intolerancve as well. Sandy
  6. Sadly, despite being the daughter of a nurse and a pharmacist, these sorts of medical texts tend to be completely indecipherable to me. Can I just take your word for it, Issie? Sandy
  7. I don't think I have ever "reset". In fact, I have to be super cautious after I have a syncope issue, because I am very, very likely to just keel back over again when I try to get up. There have been episodes where I have been stuck on the floor for HOURS, because every time I try to get back up again, I come crashing back down. Today, in fact has been pretty bad, have had three full syncopes, and dozens of near syncopes. DISLIKE! Sandy
  8. This is good news! There is far too few resources to turn to for diagnosis and treatment, and the west coast has been terribly deprived! Yay! Sandy
  9. I have been there, and as another poster said, it truly was for the best in the long run. She told me rather bluntly she could not continue to manage my care because I had just grown way to complicate, and with her (admittedly very large!) patient load she could not manage me the way I needed, coordinating care, and being the "gatekeeper" over my meds. I ended up interviewing several, and got really, really luck finding my PCP who was just starting out in private practice, but had been an ER doc for years. So she had seen all kinds of bizarre issues over the years, and was unfazed by me. She goes to conferences several times a year, constantly seeking to expand her knowledge. She has never given up on me, and even with my laundry list of illnesses, she is still convinced that we can eventually find the best combination to give me the most relief possible. Like night and day from my old doctor, I had really liked her personally, and didn't want to lose her, but I have since learned it was truly best for my health in the long run!
  10. My PCP is a "integrative" or "fundamental" MD, which means she is just as likely to tell me to get a specific herb, or preparation that contains a variety of herbs, as she is to write a prescription for say, antibiotics. She firmly believes that health is managed beat when you use the best tool for the task at hand. So she has me on: Boswelia- an anti-inflammatory herb used for GI tract inflamation Vitamins C, D (10,000 IU per day) folic acid, B12, and acidophilus pearls. Inflamm-X from metagenics- a powdered drink mix that has complete, highly digestible, nutrient formula to help kind of tide me over when I am too sick to eat. Sandy
  11. I can't believe they don't feel EDS is very serious! Especially when there is some pretty darn good evidence that says in has a causal relationship to POTS! I have both, and a few other things as well, but my EDS probably causes me the most complications, the most pain, and impacts my life the most. Especially since it can be degenerative to a lesser or greater degree. In me, my EDS, POTS, celiac disease, and osteoporosis are all interwoven in a vicious little circle and exacerbate each other in all sorts of unpleasant ways. I would strongly encourage you to seek out a second opinion. PS...This journey of trying to find the best diagnosis and gain the clearest understanding can be fraught with frustration. I will be keeping you in my prayers, and in the meantime, I highly recommend Dr. Brad Tinkle, PhD's book, "The Hypermobility Handbook". It is written for patients, so very straightforward to read, and chock full of all sorts of good infore to help you take the best care of your self possible. Sandy Sandy
  12. A couple thoughts- First- Dr. Grubb asks me every time I see him how I am managing my stress. Not because he doubts my illness, on the contrary he confirmed on dx and was the one who originally caught and dx'ed the cause of my POTS. But he told me that stress if the biggest, most common trigger of bad "flares" of the illnesses, and that stress has a negative impact of the physical health of ANYONE. What stress does to one's health is NOT imaginary, or psychosomatic, or insignificant. Stress can put you at much higher risk for heart attacks, strokes, various types of cancers, the list goes on and on. so even if stress is linked to what is making you ill, that in no way means that you are not ill, and it absolutely does not mean your physical experience should not be treated medically. Second- Dr. Grubb has also told me on numerous occasions that if you are dealing with a chronic, incurable illness that has as much of an impact on one's day to day life, that alone is extremely stressful. Managing your stress helps to give you the perspective needed to be able to keep better track of your symptoms, which in turn helps to identify patterns and triggers, which is a huge factor in your doctor diagnosing the root problem. I am currently on a a SSNRI called cymbalta, which I fought tooth and nail trying not to be only any meds that were anti-depressants or related to anti-depressants. My major concern was that as soon as a doc saw that medication they would immediately dismiss me as being "crazy". And if I was crazy, then no need to treat me, right? I won't lie, I have had some bad experiences over the last several years, most of us have at one point or another. But I now kind of kick myself for not giving in on this med much sooner. While I don't love the side effects, (or the price tag!) cymbalta in particular has proven to be effective in helping to manage chronic pain, and it is stressful to have an illness where you might not ever get better. That can often be very difficult just to treat. So try to keep in mind that treating your mental health is part of treating you, but only PART! As for your current situation, I have been in a very similar spot, and it can be maddening. My mom, a retired nurse, gave me this suggested phrasing for when I am getting nowhere with a doctor, pointing out to me that very few doctors care much about diagnosing anything. They really just want to treat you, get you stable, and get you out the door. I have to admit, this phrase seems to do wonders when I am ready to throw things at doctors who are being dismissive and condescending: I appreciate the suggestion, and would love to explore that. However, that course of action has not/likely will not reduce my pain/prevent my fainting/stabilize my vital signs. These issues are interfering with my ability to care for myself and others, as well as with my ability to work. Do you thing a tilt table test/eeg/ekg/mri/insert desired test here would better pinpoint exactly what is going on with me? And what sort of treatment do you suggest while we try to clarify this AS WELL as managing my stress? And when would you like me to come back to discuss the efficacy of this plan?" I thought it was a bunch of ego petting to no great end, but I was forced to thank my mom when the specific doctor (an internist who was insisting nothing was wrong with me despite the copper coil {from a tubal ligation procedure} that had apparently managed to migrate back into my uterus, and ended up causing an emergency hysterectomy last year!) did a complete 180 in his treatment. The fact that I wasn't asking for anything specific, and thanking him for his suggestions, actually worked! In the meantime, as I think someone else in the thread mentioned, start keeping a detailed symptom journal. You can pick up an automatic blood pressure cuff at most drug stores for around $30 or so. The machine will also give a heart rate, which is not quite as responsive or accurate as a pulse ox, but will do the job fine for your purposes. If you can squeeze in time in the mornings, keep the meter on a nightstand or somewhere right around your bedside where you can reach it in the mornings without sitting up or getting out of bed. Take a laying pressure, swing your legs around and carefully sit up on the edge of the bed. Wait at least 10 minutes, and take another reading while you are sitting. Carefully stand up, (standing up after laying down to sleep all night is one of the very high risk moments in the typical day for a syncope, or faint, because of the position change after laying down for so long. ) wait ten minutes, but feel free to support yourself with a cane or hang on to a dresser or such. Taking a bad fall is NOT the goal! Take the final reading. Write all three measurements, laying, sitting, and standing every day for at least a month. All of us have good days and bad days. You may have had a good day in his office, which is why it can be so much more beneficial to do the readings daily for a fairly extended period of time. You are more likely to pick up readings when you are not doing so great. In that same notebook, or excel spreadsheet, or however you want to track it, make sure that you also make note of any headaches, migraines, nausea, and/or pain and the location of your pain. Write down what you may have taken or done (gentle stretches? meditation? cup of tea?) for your pain, and if it helped. I know this sounds like a lot of work, and it is. But doing a record like this is the best tool you can give your doctor to help him figure out what is going on with you, and what tests you would benefit most from. If he still isn't much help, fire him and take your notes elsewhere. Good rapport is actually really important, in order to get the best care you have to feel comfortable enough with your doctor that you are willing to share any and all issues. Keep in mind as well, there are many forms of dysautonomia, and while POTS is the most common, (I think? Correct me if I'm wrong, somebody! ) there are actually many types of these illnesses. SO even a negative POTS diagnosis would not necessarily mean you don't have an autonomic systems disorder. There is a ton of good info about most/all (?) types on the dinet.org main site. Hope this wasn't information overload! Feel free to PM me if you have any questions, and good luck! Sandy
  13. I gained about 30 pounds or so when I first got sick, and then last year my weight plummeted, for no reason we could easily tell. After a lot of false negatives and dead ends, I finally ended up with a diagnosis of celiac disease. My weight stabilized for a minute, and I got back up to about 140, (I am 5'8, so at 140 I am still pretty slender.) but my symptoms have gone completely haywire, and my POTS, EDS type III, celiac disease, and osteoporosis are all exacerbating each other to a horrible degree. I have lost even more weight, am now down to 124, which is less than I weighed my senior year of high school almost 20 years ago. I got constant grief back then from friends and family that I was far too thin back then, at 128 or so. My fiance has been horrified at the disappearance of my rear end, and is strongly suggesting I need more milkshakes and such in my life. Like several of you, though, my weight fluctuations seem to be a result of my assorted dx'es, rather than triggering the flare. Sandy
  14. Hooray! It makes the journey so much less frightening and overwhelming when you start to feel like you have the right "team" of physicians, working with you, not ON you! Makes all the difference in the world when a doctor displays real interest and concern, and tries to treat you as an equal. So glad you found a good one! Sandy
  15. I am currently being treating for a very similar sounding rash, raised itchy red bumps, but small, about the size of the tip of a pen, or slightly larger. My doctor said she suspected foliculitis, which is a type of staph infection of the skin. So we are treating it with a 10 day course of Ceftin, (YUCK!) and we'll see where we are at once I am done with the antibiotics. About 2-3 months ago I also seemed to develop a nail fungus in my left big toe, which completely grosses me out. So we starting a long course of oral Lamisil for that, but she will be carefully monitoring my liver enzymes, as she said Lamisil can cause elevation in liver enzymes and I have had issues with that in the past. But I also get celiac rashes, and I saw a cymbalta commercial recently that warned some patients experience rashes! So I am not sure what the real culprit is. I had no idea this was so common though. As for purple veins and red veins, I am starting to get a ton of spider veins all over my legs, which I was kind of chalking up to age. (I am 36) But my doctor told me that they are most certainly NOT normal for my age, and that after my surgery this week we would be taking a much closer look at that. It's always something! Sandy
  16. Yikes! Glad to hear it went okay, though! Can you bring something to eat/drink next time? You would think they would serve healthier food to people who needed these types of treatments! Sandy
  17. I quit driving entirely about 9 or 10 months ago. So I always have someone with me if I leave the house, because my body hardly cooperates with walking around the house these days! Additionally: 1. Cash/credit/debit card- so I can buy additional beverages, snacks, etc. 2. Phone- entertainment and important contact info all in one. I even keep a (relatively!) current med list stored in my phone 3. Three ring binder- my health binder which contains contact info for all of my specialists, information on my POTS and EDS as ER docs frequently have no idea what I am talking about, much faster for everyone to just have the most current articles I can find by specialists, my healthcare power of attorney, and my living will. And any other important info like med lists, and contact info for my family and fiance. 4. Norwegian formula hand cream. No matter how much I try to stay well hydrated, my hands are perpetually dry/cracking, and it drives me nuts! So I always have some sort of hand cream, but this is my favorite! 5. Rescue meds for pain/nausea, just in case. 6. Like others, lots of clothing layers, between POTS and early onset menopause (emergency hysterectomy last year) I am either freezing or broiling, with no happy medium. 7.Water and a granola bar or some dried apricots. 8. Wheelchair or cane, depending on how bad off I am that day. No wonder why I look like a pack animal when I leave the house! Sandy
  18. I am having surgery on Thursday, and as my surgeon was not very familiar with POTS, he sent me for cardiac clearance before he would clear me for the surgery. (I am having an arthroscopic repair of a torn labrum in my left hip, which is the cartilage that holds the thighbone in the hip socket.) I have EDS-III, so no fall or any accident, I just was stuck sitting in a plane for 6 hours, and when the flight finally arrived, after a 3 hour delay they kept us on board for, in Milwaukee I couldn't walk. Anyway, I have had several surgeries in the last few years, and I really haven't had any major problems. We usually withhold my beta blocker that morning, because I tend to be very hypotensive. The cardiologist I saw told me not to take any of my meds that morning, but to bring my midodrine with me. He also said that he was going to advise the anesthesiologist run a lot of fluids in me, and that they not discharge me without getting a set of good orthostatic pressures that show I am fairly stable. And as a precaution, we are not doing my surgery in the surgical center they normally use, but are doing it in a regular hospital instead. I think that the pre-surgical directions can vary a great deal among us, given how much variance in symptoms we all have. The important thing is to make sure your surgeon and anesthesiologist are aware of your POTS or any other serious health conditions you may have, so they can consult with your doctors and have the best plan possible for you. That said, paona, it sounds like you have dotted all the i's and crossed all the t's, so your daughter should do fine. Especially since they can do it without needing to cut her open. Many of us POTSies tend to heal very slowly, so don't be surprised if her recovery takes longer than they expect, or at least longer than the "average" patient. Also, I was warned not to use any NSAID's (non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs like advil, aleve, ketoprofen, motrin, etc.) because they can cause bleeding complications. So if that wasn't a direction you were given for your daughter, call the doctor and check first thing. And good luck! Sandy
  19. For me, going through the breakdown of my marriage and subsequent divorce, after getting sick, was worse than getting sick itself. Not that POTS isn't life altering, because it certainly is. But it has actually brought some really great, positive changes in my life. It forced me to finally start valuing myself, and to finally address why I continually ended up in unhealthy, abusive, destructive situations. There are days when the pain and illness are almost more than I can bear, certainly. These days I seem to just collect more and more diagnoses. But in being forced to finally get healed emotionally (with a couple of years of hardcore, intense, and often painful therapy) I finally learned why I kept repeating the same mistakes. And I was taught how to identify characteristics in people that indicate trustworthiness, caring, concern for my well-being, and the ability to offer and give real support. So in many ways because I got sick, my life is so much better. I don't know if I would have ever gone through the therapy, or made the commitments to self-care that I did, had my physical state not forced my hand. I just did not have an iota of energy to waste on being self-destructive anymore. On the other hand, the divorce completely broke me, and made me feel like an utter failure. I don't know why entirely, but I was convinced that the success of my marriage was my responsibility. So when he asked me for a divorce, after just 16 months of marriage, I felt like such a horrific failure. I now feel truly blessed, every day I wake up and thank God for how very richly blessed I am. I have an amazing support system, the best friends and family anyone could ask for. And in October I get to marry a man who was brave enough to not only wade through all of my fear and baggage, but is able and willing to take care of me. I never dreamed I would be so lucky. The irony (to me anyway!) is that when I was healthy I wouldn't have given him a second thought. He is "too nice", stable, responsible, only an inch and a half taller than me and I liked really tall guys. With my new perspective, I treasure him for the rare, wonderful man he is. So I am not trying to preach, but I think you can look at POTS, and any other illnesses you may have, and think of it as the worst thing to happen to you. And it is perfectly true. I believe that on some level you have to mourn the life you expected to have. I also think that being sick does not have to preclude you from having joy and fulfillment it your life. In many ways, especially since this is a condition that many of us, (like myself) are stuck with, it can make your life feel a lot happier if you try to focus on what's great about your life now, and what you have in your life right now, challenges and all, that makes you happy. For instance, I was initially heartbroken when I realized I was not ever going back to work again. But one day it occurred to me that without the need to be "professional" I could do all the wild and crazy punk rock things with my appearance that I had to give up when I decided to grow up and get a real job. At this very moment my hair is primarily cherry red with blue-black streaks woven through it. That will certainly NOT be the answer for everyone, but being able to do crazy stuff with my appearance that I haven't been able to for years, gave me something about my illness to truly celebratte! Sandy
  20. Like the others, I want to extend my condolences. Stress plus travel can do quite a number, but all the tips you have been given can help make it more manageable. The only things I would add is a bag of dried apricots, they are really high in potassium, and a serving size is just 5 pieces, which is easier for me to manage when I am really nauseated. (The fact that I have a massive sweet tooth is another reason I prefer dried apricots to bananas for potassium!) And if you have them, wear compression garments. I wear my compression stockings usually when I travel, but forget them on a recent trip. That was a very painful lesson learned! I will NEVER do that again! Good luck, and try to pace yourself as much as possible. Sandy
  21. I don't know, Jana. Ironically, the opposite problem for me, realizing my hear rate was pushing 200 during exercise and asking my parents if that was okay, was the true start of my search for answers. I have multiple diagnoses now, POTS, EDS, celiac disease, osteoporosis, and it seems that they just keep adding up. I am actually starting to lose interest! I have come full circle, where I don't think there will ever be a "label" that will magically give the one brilliant doctor the insight needed to "cure" me. Now I simply try to focus on being as happy as I possibly can, and focus on the things and the people that I love. I still try to do everything I possibly can to be as healthy as I can be. But I have accepted that for me, perfect health is not something I will ever experience again. So why waste energy trying to get someplace I am not allowed to go? I simply try to focus on doing what makes me happy, making the very healthiest choices I can to slow the progression of some of my illnesses as much as possible. I don't know if this helps at all, Jana, but it does help me stay a little more grounded. Sandy
  22. I take 600mg at bedtime, theoretically to reduce the frequency and severity of my migraines, and to help my insomnia. I really can't say I have ever noticed significant improvement. But unlike a lot of meds, I can't say I have noticed it doing me any harm either. So I am not making any changes at the moment, but I will be discussing it with my migraine specialist. Sandy
  23. Like Thankful, and many others I agree that meds can be tremendously helpful in managing our illness. Just thought I would add that (here in the United States, anyway, not sure how it works in many other countries) we have an additional resource for managing our medicines and discussing the risks of potentially weaning off of meds, which is our pharmacists. Especially if you fill all of your prescriptions in one place, and have for some time, a regular pharmacist can offer a great deal of knowledge and support and is an important part of our health management "team". Of course I have an advantage/bias, my Papa Bear (aka my stepfather) is a pharmacist, so I can reach my favorite pharmacist at any hour, who knows my entire medical and prescription history! But any of you in the US like me, can have a free consult with your pharmacist any time you are in the pharmacy, and most of us see our pharmacists more than any of our other healthcare practitioners, except maybe our primary care physicians. Sandy
  24. I wish I had thought of earplugs! I even have some readily available, my fiance is a metal fan, and values his hearing, so he has disposable ones he keeps on our nightstand. <face palm!> Sandy
  25. I have actually given some serious thought to a service dog. Sadly my fiance is not an animal person, at all. He barely tolerates Polly! (Although he has come a long way, he will actually pet her on occasion now!) He has drawn the line at any more animals until Polly passes. As she is only 2 and a 1/2, I am hoping I have 20 years to think about it! But especially as my EDS progresses, and my mobility becomes more and more limited, I see tons of benefit. He is just really worried about caring for the dog. Which is a fair concern. The whole reason I got Polly was because there are just too many days I can't get out of bed for me to worry about walking a dog. The sort of dogs Marty actually likes are too small to be a whole lot of help to me. I have found that having any pet is a big help, though. When I was still single, having Polly went such a long way towards combating the loneliness and isolation I often felt. She also forced me out of bed, at least once a day, to make sure she got fed. It wasn't much, but being able to accomplish something, even something that small, helped me feel a lot better about myself. And she, like the cat I had before her, seems to sense when I am doing really badly. She will curl up and cuddle with me all day. So fortunately, Marty has come to understand just how important having a pet is for my well-being. Amazing what the furballs can do for us, even without any special training at all! Sandy
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