My husband has very very low testosterone and we're still searching for answers on why. So basically the pressure is off for now. He takes testosterone and it helps alittle but we are both capable and only have relations maybe once a month................maybe not. This used to be a big problem in our relationship for me because I didn't think it was normal for a young man to not have a sex drive that's why he had tests done and his testoserone was like 50 instead of 1200. Now after this illness and 3 little kids (who knows how I got pregnant 6x) I secretly find it as a blessing because I don't have to feel like I'm holding out on him. Don't get me wrong there are days I feel sad like our relationship is lacking, but over all health wise it's fine. Dayna