My mom is amazing, always has been through this her mom is as well for me, though my dad and sis not so much. he's nice about it but definitely doesn't make an effort to be kind with his choice of words...even if it's something minor like asking sarcastically if I want to come when he's going somewhere he doesn't want to, when the answer is yes obviously, I would love to be able to leave the house even to do something not fun! or saying "keep feeling better" (meaning feel better soon) when this isn't a "get better soon" situation. ugh just a little rant!