Hi JuneFlower, I am so sorry to hear you, your daughter, and the rest of your family are going through this challenging time. There are so many layers of chronic disease to cope with, it's ridiculous. It is like getting sick, abused, bullied, rejected, depressed and anxious all at once. It feels like a trauma forever sometimes. I became medically challenged at 8 and diagnosed at 9. Completely normal, and then just the opposite. Now I am nineteen, and feel it is almost more difficult to cope with now. I think it is because I always hang on to the "normal" parts of my life. The everyday things that I can do that everyone else can. I always hung on to this, and even in general had a positive attitude. Always just looked at what I had and what I liked, and kept moving forward. I believe the perspective I had was and is a good one, but it also has its sense of in-denial. Esp. because life's harder to avoid now with more adult transitions coming my way. (fun, fun, fun.... ) Trying to figure out your future is tough in general, but even tougher when you have a condition. And the thoughts and frustration always go back to the condition part. "I have to put extra steps and time into my health- I can't deal with all this right now- too frustrated- only me- WHY is this happening to me?" Something that really clicked to me one day and brought a crap load off my back was: Yes, this is happening to me. It is unfair, and unclear. But if you like to life, and lives, these things don't just happen to one. I can't think of one friend in my life that something tragic and incredibly unfair hasn't had to go through. Yeah, sometimes its like, man up! that ain't nothing! But sometimes it can be just as heartbreaking. I also get how it is more than one struggle. I was in OCD rituals for 7 hours a day, and worked really hard (and working hard) at CBT (Cognitive Behavior Therapy), to get in under control. Sessions twice a week with doing a lot of reading homework and strategies, to like twice a month. This was also when my mood was at its worst. I would def recommend therapy to everyone(I don't care who!!!! It works, I was a non-beliber). Just make sure to find the right fit. It sounds like your on a great track with that(and a cat!!!!!). Some other folks mentioned what I am about to say, but I think it is CRUCIAL!!!! Have your daughter find a craft. Something she is good at and can grow with in positive ways. Mine is music. It's everything for me, and now it is looking at my major for school. Wouldnt even have touched it if hadnt got ill, but my sister did it and i needed something to do quick. Yes school work is a good option too becuase it is productive, but music provides the best of all worlds in my humble opinion. Also, social time. Esp. out (if can be) in a group setting with people she likes. THIS has really helped me a lot mood wise. Idk what it is exactly, but its prob the combo of: being out, good company, and fun. I wish the absolute best to you and you family! My thoughts are with you!