p8d Posted September 28, 2018 Report Share Posted September 28, 2018 I found this article and presumably will the boos interesting. They offer a new take on chronic illness and disability. https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/annaleahy/living-with-chronic-pain-that-cant-be-fixed-ada-limon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinterSown Posted September 28, 2018 Report Share Posted September 28, 2018 How we all tackle adversity is very different. Right (write?) now on my kitchen counter is a chart where I'm drawing an uphill battle line showing the increasing difficulties in getting a post-menopausal diagnosis and appropriate age-related care--it's letting me address my frustrations. I chose to learn and understand in effort to find balance in my body and my soul. Dysautonomic care for everyone is a dual track--we try to reduce the symptoms, and we also try to limit their effect on our lives. Learning how to slowly and incrementally adapt to make your life better is vital; it involves flexibility in your habits and attitude. I am strongly behind everyone picking up a pen, a marker, a paintbrush, a musical instrument, pounding the keyboard in public forums or their own b'vlogs, writing books, anthologies, poems, haiku, limericks--or whatever other media that allows you to tell your story. Who we are and how we tell our story is part of how we live--you don't get to have dysautonomia in peaceful secret because the symptoms can't be ignored by others who see our eyes glaze over as we crumple or lay down for a nap that lasts five hours instead of five minutes. Describing, showing and telling your view of the world can be healing to a wounded spirit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pistol Posted September 28, 2018 Report Share Posted September 28, 2018 I have found this helpful: when our body gives up we get going: we are not reduced to the mere functions of our bodies. We do not have to have a great audience to change the world - being our best is always good enough. We do not have to be authors or motivational speakers or artists to make a difference. If we can manage to inspire or do our chores or just simply be there for anyone, not become the center of our own universe but know that we still - how ever little - are useful/helpful/of service to others ( even if it is just our own family ) - then we are doing good. If we are lucky enough to be able to do more - yippiehhh! Telling our story is always a good starting point. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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