!!YES!! I had to respond to this one post- usually it takes too much energy to post (I admire all you who do it so often), because fatigue is my main complaint with this illness. I would love to be able to work, but I have to SAVE my energy for the basic necessities like making dinner doing laundry, paying bills. I find I have to BUDGET my time and lower my expectations, so at the end of the day I have accomplished at least the minimum. You have to find a balance between "coddling" yourself and being overburdened, both of which can make the condition worse. I find I have to say "I can't" to people who ask me to do something extra for Them, and say "I CAN" when it comes to doing something for myself, and NOT feel guilty!